her default move is trying to get away. My default reaction to this was, "Establish safeword and tie her up!" But that would be such a terrible, terrible idea in this context. I only mention it because I thought you might find it mildly amusing that this is my kneejerk solution.
Maybe if she watches him masturbate a few times? That totally worked for me with the whole "EEEK ALIEN GENITALS" thing. Also for starting to get an idea of how Brad likes to be touched so she might not feel so completely lost.
Meanwhile... I dunno, this woman has to learn how to masturbate. Nonpenetratively just to get used to the feeling of... feelings. And then work her way up to penetrating herself, and/or work her way up to masturbating with Brad just... in the room. Blindfolded and not interacting with her, just there. Then not blindfolded. Then maybe they can have some mutual masturbation.
And dude, I'm not even there but I feel like I want to plop down in front of her and go, "Look how I do it IT'S SO EASY OMG."
I have less than zero ideas about her phobia of lube, though.
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I'll at least try, anyway
Date: 2013-02-17 10:06 pm (UTC)her default move is trying to get away.
My default reaction to this was, "Establish safeword and tie her up!" But that would be such a terrible, terrible idea in this context. I only mention it because I thought you might find it mildly amusing that this is my kneejerk solution.
Maybe if she watches him masturbate a few times? That totally worked for me with the whole "EEEK ALIEN GENITALS" thing. Also for starting to get an idea of how Brad likes to be touched so she might not feel so completely lost.
Meanwhile... I dunno, this woman has to learn how to masturbate. Nonpenetratively just to get used to the feeling of... feelings. And then work her way up to penetrating herself, and/or work her way up to masturbating with Brad just... in the room. Blindfolded and not interacting with her, just there. Then not blindfolded. Then maybe they can have some mutual masturbation.
And dude, I'm not even there but I feel like I want to plop down in front of her and go, "Look how I do it IT'S SO EASY OMG."
I have less than zero ideas about her phobia of lube, though.